In the world of residence life, we spend a lot of time encouraging students to โget involved,โ โbuild community,โ and โlive their values.โ We organize programming, lead dialogues, and guide residents toward civic engagement with the hope that these experiences will help shape them into thoughtful, connected members of the broader society. But how often... Continue Reading →
Res Life Goes Analogue
CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. DING. SWOOSH. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. On the eve of RA training one year, many of my colleagues stopped by my office to see where that boisterous clicking sound was coming from. โIs that what I think it is?โ a colleague asked. โA typewriter? Yes, it is!โ I replied in a... Continue Reading →
Metaphors and Move-in, or How Writing A Limerick Lightens Living On
In a profession where every day brings a new challengeโmediating conflicts, fostering community, supporting students in crisisโcreative thinking isnโt a luxury. Itโs essential. As a residence life professional, I lean on an invaluable tool I learned in my undergraduate education to sharpen that creativity: poetry. For me, reading and writing poetry isnโt just a personal... Continue Reading →
Cultivating Confidence: Understanding and Managing Imposter Syndrome in Residence Life
In the dynamic and emotionally nuanced environment of residence life, professionals are expected to lead, support, and mentor students while navigating their own complex personal and professional development. One often-overlooked challenge that many in the field face is imposter syndrome. The persistent feeling of self-doubt despite evident success or qualifications. But what is it? How... Continue Reading →
ResEdChat Ep 121: The Superhero Complex in Student Affairs
In this episode of Roompact's ResEdChat, we will be discussย "The Superhero Complex in Student Affairs." Theย superhero complexย refers to a mindset where student affairs professionals feel the need to "save the day" constantlyโtaking on excessive responsibilities, overworking, and sacrificing personal well-being in the name of student support. This can stem from a deep commitment to student success but often leads to burnout, lack of boundaries, and an unhealthy work culture where self-sacrifice is the norm.
Behind Closed Halls: 11 Things RDs Can Actually Do This Summer
Picture this: the halls are closed, your end-of-year report is done, and students have departed for summer. This feeling is right around the corner! Even if youโre heavily involved in orientation, camps and conferences, or preparing for training, the beginning of summer has a way of getting residence life professionals to reflect, rest, and dream... Continue Reading →
The Res Life Mixtape Vol. 1: Using Music in Your Work
โWait, you actually know what โArmy of Darknessโ is?โ my student asked. โWhat a silly question, of course I know the 1992 Sam Raimi directed classic, it was a huge part of personality in college,โ I thought to myself. I had made a fleeting reference to the film โArmy of Darknessโ in a meeting I... Continue Reading →
ResEdChat Ep 116: Staying Connected to Your Work!ย with Bernard Nichols
In student affairs, especially Housing and Residence Life, we do what I like to call "shadow work"โoutside the classroom, in late-night conversations, in the spaces where students grow into themselves. In this episode of Roompact's ResEdChat, Host Jasmine Nettles and guest Bernard Nichols talk about understanding "why"ย we do what we do, what keeps us going, and how our personal values and lived experiences have shaped the way we show up for students.
Your (Academic and Beyond) Year of YES!
Yes, I know there is a whole book about saying yes to new adventures, experiences, opportunities, people, jobs, you name itโฆfind a way to say yes to it. Now, I never read that book but the title basically summed it up for me. This is my last blog post for my year of writing and... Continue Reading →
2+0+2+5
Regardless of when this blog is posted, I can still say Happy New Year to you! I hope the new year is off to the start that you were hoping for. If it's not, there is still time to turn things around (fingers crossed). A new year brings new possibilities, new adventures, new challenges, new... Continue Reading →
Thankful and Grateful:ย Taking Time for Gratitude as a Res Life and Housing Pro
An attitude of gratitude. I often have to remind my son, being grateful for what you have should never be taken for granted. The world does not owe anyone anything. So I try my hardest to have an attitude of gratitude. I personally celebrate Thanksgiving so when November rolls around each year, I get extra... Continue Reading →
Happy New (Academic) Year!
Why is it August already?!? Like, who authorized this? It was just May two seconds ago but now itโs August and in my case our students are headed back to campus. Now, your new academic year may not start until September but either wayโฆ Happy New (Academic) Year to us all!ย It seems only fitting... Continue Reading →
Hall Director Down: What I Learned From Balancing Health & Housing
Housing professionals are well accustomed to the process of handling a crisis. When your work involves maintaining the everyday homeostasis and safety of an unpredictable community, your ability to maintain calm and handle a situation can become almost uncanny. In our roles, we encounter a variety of urgent issues, from the most ridiculous of situations... Continue Reading →
4 Reasons Blogging Brightened My Year
A little over a year ago, I left my โcovid institutionโ and transitioned into a role that allowed me to get back to the things that excited me about higher education. I was able to learn and flex new skills, I was shaping the student experience through systems and policies, and I generally felt that... Continue Reading →
If You Give a College Student a Cookie: Be Prepared For Anything
I was recently taking a moment to tidy up my office and came across the childrenโs classic, "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie" by Laura Joffe Numeroff, staring back at me from my bookcase. This book was gifted to me by my partner many years ago and has been a wholesome story I have... Continue Reading →
Cruisin’ Through College: What Residence Halls Can Learn from Cruise Ships
My undergraduate friends and I decided it was time for a reunion this winter break. Since graduating in 2021 and 2022, our crew had been experiencing the inevitable scatter that comes with leaving college life behind. No more meet-ups at dining halls. No more easy, late-night walks. Pre-funded and pre-organised events obviously became obsolete as... Continue Reading →
Navigating the Homecoming: Challenges College Students May Face Returning Home (Part 2)
The transition from the bustling independence of college life and a new place to lay oneโs head in the residence halls to the familiar comfort of "home-home" can be a bittersweet experience for college students. While the prospect of reuniting with loved ones and reconnecting with childhood roots holds immense appeal and nostalgia for some,... Continue Reading →
The Many Ways of Defining โHomeโ in College and University Residence Life (Part 1)
As we enter fall and winter break season and many of our students may soon depart their residence halls and apartments to travel back to spend time with beloved family, friends, and pets, I wanted to dig a little deeper into the concept of โhomeโ and what that means, both from a physical and philosophical... Continue Reading →



